Good kiss, Bad kiss.

i just had a very interesting conversation with my girl. we basically went from making dinner plans to one rather odd situation.
Ladies, Gents, Indulge me for abit: would you rather have a bad kiss and a good shag or a good kiss and a bad shag? now i know this is a tricky one but here me out.
alot of the time we get a good kiss that translates into a bad shag BUT rarely do we get a bad kiss that translates to a good shag.personally, if a chap cannot kiss me like i want to be kissed we are through. but just think about it for a minute.do a loose inventory of your life experiences and see which side of the divide you are on.
i know chances are that you will have many good kisses that didnt quite pan out,i know i have some myself. but is there anyone out there with a different story?have you ever kisses a guy and then by some stroke of something,luck or otherwise,been pleasantly surprised at the end?thats a storo id love to hear.
if there is someone out there with such a story i applaud you.personally im not brave enough to venture beyond.after all "dalili ya mvua ni mawingu". i always say that i have no business tolerating a chap with no skills.dont get me wrong,i know im no expert but dammit i took it upon myself to learn.practice makes perfect is not a nursery rhyme its a fact.
ask yourself this:
1. have i ever been complimented on my skill?kissing or otherwise.
2. were you still being complimented 1,2 or 3 month after?
(i have found that anticipation has the uncanny ability to make plain stuff seem really cool and fascinating,when the excitement wears off you ask yourself what the hell you were thinking)
3. after the initial kiss/shag did the other party seems excited at the idea of doing it again?
4. have you ever seen them since?

think about it and be honest with yourself.not just about this but about other stuff in your life after all your skills go across the board-at work,in the kitchen, at home, everywhere!
Think about it!